One thing for sure.....be careful what you wish for.....

So I know one thing for sure, that one thing is nothing is for sure!!  I have been so wacky crazy lately and every time I sit down to blog my darn blogging thing messes up and I end up very frustrated so I just walk away......but we've had visitors, wisdom teeth, birthdays, school projects, new jobs, sports, all sorts of crazy things that have kept me from blogging lately.

When describing myself, I would usually not use the words, petite, tiny, curly brown hair......but as cancer does with everything, it completely changes not only your emotional world, your physical world, but your stable world as well.  Things as you know it just vanish, like the cancer itself, taking your secure world with it.

I was just in Publix getting a birthday cake for my awesome husband (today's his birthday) and (I no longer make the Boston Creme Pie since all these delicious bakeries, I can't buy the ingredients that cheap and the homemade is only marginally better...they are pro's at the bakery) a man came up to me and said........

"You're hair is so cute".  Funny older man
"Thanks"  Donita
"Did you do it because it's so hot here?" Funny (maybe) older man
"Nope it's this way from chemo"  ECT
"OOOHHH, well Honey, let me tell you a thing or two....I know very few women who can pull of that hair and I stand by  my original comment, you're hair is cute!"  FUNNY older man

I really loved this man, he was quite genuine with his response, which made it even better.  It was funny timing because I had been into Sally's Beauty this morning getting Nick special swimming shampoo and I was seeing my hair in a mirror and thought, holy cow this needs some help.

So I talked to the lady and I got mouse for..........wait..................wait................here it is.............CURLY hair.  And my hair is curly very very very curly and brown (with blonde highlights).  Words I'd never use to describe myself....tiny, petite, curly brown hair........I see that secure world floating away....(however, I would actually place money on me never being petite or tiny :)_)

But, strangely enough, I like the curly brown (with blonde highlights) hair.  I've always wished for curly hair, and that very sentence brings forth another observation.


"Be careful what you wish for..."  and I did wish for curly hair all the time.  Now I have it, only took cancer to get it.  o_O

Probably be a while before I'm on again...I'm working on a story to tell you, but it's not quite done yet.  We have more company this week (LOVE my Aunt and Uncle and can't WAIT to see them) so it will have to be next week.

So my ending comment is:

Ignorance is bliss and be careful what you wish for.....