Sunday, August 2, 2009

Should be the last post today

I'm sorry for writing that the "keep positive" comments were bugging me. They aren't really, I mean I really do want to hear them, I guess I mean if I talk about it frankly to you, please don't respond with "stay positive"- have the uncomfortable conversation with me and help me through it.

BUT, if you want to post that to me, or fb it to me, or text it to me, that's great because I know your thinking of me and that's what's getting me through all of this, so since I have the cancer, just be patient with my not so though out comments and my wishy washy attitude. I believe that's called "pulling the cancer card." Get used to it....................xoxo :)

3 comments:

  1. I don't think it is the keep positive comments. I think it is from people who don't know what it means to fight for your life. They are trying to help but do not know how. We are all here. Use the friends and support you have. Gave you my cell #. USE IT!!! You will need to vent in the near future. XXXOOO

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  2. I think you are right, it's not the comments per say it's the attitude that comes with them. And I KNOW they mean well I really do, like my brother said I really just need humor. I think sometimes people clump together positive and humor, I will take all the humor anyone has to offer, positive thoughts are so personal and mean something different to everyone! Dear sweet friend, thank you!

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  3. Its because nobody knows what it is to fight for your life and kids. It is incredibly scary!! We (and I can say that cuz i been thru it) can do this together. Hate to sound so nonchalent, but been there. You can do this. You are strong and will fight!! Am here when you need me.

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